Sometimes the way things are wrought in this world, do not lead to princess living in a castle, if they are wrought the right way (i.e. no cheating, dishonesty, trampling over others while not considering them a person) etc.
Lets say you made it to the castle and the princess, and lost you soul in the step-by-step process needed.
Sometimes the person whom you can rest over thier heart, and walk with them in magic, is not the person that your family, town, or society will be too welcoming of, due to their looks, culture, background, etc.
Sometimes a single rose sprouts from a family where you can only see dung pile in most of the members…
So it is once again, important to have real-living spiritual discernment, and not just memorizing forumulas. Also important to practice spirituality even with “difficult” people (while still away from God, in order to move towards God).
Sometimes the guuidance or “way of seeing” or “feeling” you receive, cannot be explained in words…
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